In an ironical twist, this article talks about something that is contrary to the conventional wisdom. There are many articles out there which teaches you how to be successful, how to earn some quick bucks and how to be a millionaire in 1 year. But those e-books or books out there are actually commercializing you. You are their target for them to be successful as their monetary target.(because you actually paid them for it)
So with that said instead of writing about how to be successful or how to make money or how to increase your chances to success in the next 24 hours I decided to write about why you will never be successful in this lifetime, because many read how they can be successful, but their aren’t many articles to my knowledge on the reasons for people not succeeding even though most can be changed around for the better.
1. Because You Procrastinate. Yes this is definitely one of the more common reasons for most people to never excel in fulfilling their chosen field or business. Instead of taking advantage of every waking moment you make excuses on why you can put it off until tomorrow or put the “grunt” work off until later, which is usually the most important of your daily task. Many will complain about why they’re not successful, but continue to put unimportant events ahead of what really should be a priority to anyone trying to better their situation or build a successful business and the answer is right in front of you and the sad thing is most know it, but fail to do anything about it.
nbnl’s comment: The mother of all failure. Everyone procrastinates, it’s only to what degree of procrastination. If you procrastinates alot, then you will live a miserable life, where 50% of your time is about holding back. For myself, my exercise regimen has always come under threat of it. While i stumble to it a few times, the key is to get on with it without thinking so much. When you are done, then you think back. How good is that you have done than hold back.
2. Because You Blame What You Lack As Your Reasons For Failure. Nine times out of ten if you ask any person or entrepreneur why they have failed in finishing or accomplishing a goal their sentence will begin with Because I don’t…. Depending on what field of business they’re in many of us could guess how that sentence will end. The sad reality is that most of us lack one thing or another and many of our predecessors have overcome many obstacles and proven time and time again that where you live, your financial status, your race, location, height, and/or belief has no take on whether or not you will be successful and it is ultimately up to you.
nbnl’s comment: You are not perfect, make do with it.
3. Because your idea isn’t as Brilliant and Unique as you think. I know this doesn’t come as a surprise to most of you especially if you have ever started a business or had an idea that you thought was just revolutionary or unique with no competition, but once you do a little research or decide to launch you see ten other businesses doing the same thing. As I’m sure you have heard this before, but it is obvious most need to hear it again a successful business begins with a great execution and a failure is well…lack there of. Most ideas have been thought of or tried and tested, but many failed because of their execution and how it was brought about. There are many reasons why the same businesses fail while others succeed timing has a lot to do with it, capital, the person or entrepreneur, knowledge on the subject and much more.
nbnl’s comment: Research, research, research. When you actually did not manage to find what you are going into, or there are little information on it, you are already on the first step to your unique product. and then the next stage is.. Effort, effort, effort.
4. Because some of your best ideas are just a memory or were never brought to life. I definitely think this is one of the biggest reasons most are never successful. Many of our best ideas that would have spread virally or been a necessity in life were never brought past the brainstorming process or seemed like one of them unobtainable goals, because most of the time the brilliant ideas are the hardest to accomplish or will have you facing the most obstacles to see them come to life. I read an article about how most everyday people think of at least two million dollar ideas on their way to work during a 5day workweek, but over 90% never put any of them into action pass the thought phase and without reasonable doubt I agree.
nbnl’s comment: We have lots of dreams daily. On ideas that may cater to the market, on ideas that may interest everyone, on ideas that may capture $1 from each person in this world. Turn it into a reality.
5. Because you’re not patient. Many of us fall into this category and I was once a very impatient person when it came to seeing results with a new venture or goal I wanted to attain. I think the above title is why many of us fall victim to all of these get rich schemes we see in our email inbox everyday or on late night television infomercials. In reality there is no quick-legal ways to get rich or becoming successful anything that is worth attaining will take time to acquire. Many of us abandon a business before we give it time to get over the first years slump or automatically mark it as a failure before it has time to reach its full potential.
nbnl’s comment: Patience.
6. Because there is always somebody working harder than you. This article goes back to the first reason on procrastinating and not taking advantage of all waking moments. Every moment you sleep or take off for a break or make time for anything other than the goal you want to accomplish or business you want to be number one there is always another team of people or a person working toward the same goal. I think every time you decide to tackle an objective or start a new business that you want to succeed that you should definitely keep that in mind…there could always be somebody putting in harder and longer hours than you. Remember the number one spot or your accomplished goals wouldn’t feel so good if you were the only one going for it, because it wouldn’t be worth attaining.
nbnl’s comment: I do dispute this point by a little bit. Work Smart, not Work Hard. Your immense effort might not always equate to a little effort by someone else if you don’t work smart.
7. Because you wait on luck or opportunity (Meal Ticket) to be given to us. In most instances opportunity is not given to you it is created and you’re lucky if you are prepared. That is why it is important to always be prepared for the unthinkable, because opportunities usually arise when you least expect it and that is why in most cases we’re not prepared and that is what we call bad luck. You can’t wait for ANYTHING to come to you or for somebody to hand it to you. If you want financing for your business go out and get it, if you want to relocate to another city go do it, if you want to be a millionaire before 25 get to work today not tomorrow anything is attainable with hard work and being very persistent no matter how small or large the obstacles to success may seem.
nbnl’s comment: As of above.
8. Because the odds are against you. In most cases people want to be successful from starting a business whether it is online or offline. The reality is over 50% of small businesses fail within the first five years and out of all businesses started 85% fail within the first five years as you can see it is not in your favor to succeed. Many people who have weight loss goals will most likely not meet them considering that more than 65% of the United States population are either overweight or obese and it was up more than 16% from the year before. Your chances of being a millionaire are not as bad when compared to the other odds, because the average American has a 1 in 13 chance of becoming a millionaire and more than 741,666 become new millionaires every month.
nbnl’s comment: These are staring facts that you much stomach before you embark on anything. And the poster is irrelevant.
9. Because life is too short. This reason basically takes into mind all of the above reasons for reaching for success failures and taking time for granted and what is presented to you. You should take advantage of every opportunity that is presented to you, make use of every free second you have available, read up on any topic relevant to any goals you want to accomplish, make no excuses for tasks or goals not completed, and realize that you have nobody to blame, but yourself for any failures that you have or goals that you didn’t accomplish within your lifetime.
nbnl’s comment: This is rather pointless, but i do agree on the short part.
10. Because you will not make a change today. Even though this article stated in the beginning that “you will never be successful unless you make a change today” most of us will read it in its entirety and actually agree with its content, but will still go back to our same habits of procrastinating, blaming what we lack, putting together half-thought out ideas with poor executions, never bringing our greatest ideas pass the brainstorming process, being impatient and not persistent, letting someone work harder than you for that number one spot, waiting on our meal ticket, still understanding the odds are against you, but not working harder to overcome them, not taking advantage of all our time on this earth to see our dreams and goals manifest into something greater than we ever could imagine.
nbnl’s comment: When reality strikes.
[from dobizo]
